New: Membership Options – New website Guys

Hey Guys,

I’m still working out the kinks but there will be eventually 5 total memberships to this site… – I had two websites going to this blog…. Now Core Self Confidence website is broke off on it’s own. While I will try and keep up on this site, most of my website blogs will be put up on this site. http://www.CoreSelfConfidence.com

There is now an online platform to go through the course, as well as a private member zone. It is easier to post question as a I now have a Q and A forum! Here is all the info about the new memberships.

Check out more information on the Core Self-Confidence Program Here!

If you’d like toe see the full Course Outline you can check that out too right Here!

Free Membership

A free membership to this site, which will have a forum, chat, extra videos, etc. there will be a lot more to it. Also working on having a questions and answers area for me to keep track of and create a frequently asked question interactive section where you can participate in an ongoing confidence issues.

^^^COMING SOON!!!^^^

These packages are currently offered:

Bronze Package:

The Regular Email Subscription where you’ll have the emails sent to you daily for 21 lessons. This will be your basic what I actually designed the plan for… After 21 days you’ll have access to the full program.

Only $9.97

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Silver Package:

Core Self-Confidence Course! You will be able to move through the program at your own pace. The platform is online so you don’t have to worry about downloading the big file.

The really nice thing about the course is it does include all the embedded videos throughout the course, it’s way easier to get through the course on the online platform. Rather than clicking on the link through email you are able to just watch the video. You are also given access to some extra pictures and videos. The course will be constantly updated.

You are also given the option to receive the daily email lesson if you want.

Note: I chose responsive website design so that you can even do the course on your phone or ipad!

Only $14.97

paypal

Gold Membership:

Full ownership of the program, you can download your own copy and have it on your hard drive, or on your phone, wherever you go. You’ll be sent a list of lesson links and you’ll be given access to a page as well as sent an email to download the whole program! This download is kind of big at 3.5 gbs, so keep that in mind! Any updates or added lesson are yours for free for life!

Also included is the option to sign up for the Email Subscription and you are automatically enrolled in the course!

Only $17.97

paypal

Platinum Membership:

A coaching membership will eventually be there….it may be a moment though on this one guys. I am willing to offer coaching for FREE if you email me I can work with you, until I get this section up and running.

^^^COMING SOON!!!^^^

Just because you don’t get the big whig package doesn’t mean I won’t treat you amazing so be sure to ask me questions and regardless of your membership, EVERYONE’S questions will be answered regardless of whether you own an expensive membership or free membership.

Thank you guys for all your support!

Peace and Love,

Vic

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True Core Self-Confidence and Happiness Program

There are no more free product reviews left guys, Thank you guys for all the support! There is however a weekly raffle for a free confidence program now… So if you’d like to throw your name on the list email me at victor@thescienceofnaturalgame.com.

Why Start with Core Self Confidence?

Core Self Confidence is about Happiness, Self-Comfort, Self-Love, high Self-Esteem, Intrinsic Self Worth, and being driven by ambition, your will to be more. It is impossible to describe everything this essence, this aura, this really overall state of being entails. It is really the ultimate path towards everything you desire, it is when your inner and outer parts come into alignment and you go after everything desire. There maybe hiccups along the road but they do not deter you. Note: They may change how you go forward but NOT your eventual results or goals.

Now I have to say a lot of folks may wonder why I started with self confidence, I am very well known for my expertise in body language, it has been the center of my studies for a while now. The reality is I’ve studied self confidence and self esteem quite a bit as well, read several books, plus some others related to wisdom, contentment, and happiness. Had Life Coaches give me a hand along the way. At one point I was just another low self -confidence and self-esteem guy who struggled with myself and women. It took lots of effort and work to get myself to the point I am now, and even now I am constantly working on myself.

One reason I started with self-confidence as my very first product is my website company is Science of Natural Game, well my opinion is the foundation of a great life is Self Confidence, Happiness, and High Self Esteem. Without it you can’t go forward, everything in life, your pure enjoyment is centered on happiness, self confidence, and high self esteem. If you want skills with women you’ll gain self confidence and high self esteem, and then everything else will come easier.

If you are looking for a positive change that can push you towards everything you want, and feel better about you, if you are interested in this ideal of Core Self Confidence this program is developed for you, to develop you into that person, to reveal that person to yourself, and everyone you come into contact with.

Who this program is designed for?

The True Core Self Confidence and Happiness program was designed to help everyone. However this program is especially helpful for guys who are littered with negative thoughts, about themselves and others, about their life direction, unhappiness, and about their social status. If any of these issues affect you will help you. It is designed to help with your comfort with yourself and direction in life. To help you gain presence, self love, and high self esteem.

Some traits that may affect you:

  • Insecurity
  • Unhappiness
  • Low Self Confidence
  • Self-Doubt
  • Self- Hate
  • Low self-esteem
  • Feelings of constant Anxiety
  • Status Worries
  • Negative mindset
  • Narcissism
  • Pessimism
  • Rejection hurts you
  • Directionless

Traits of the man who has low esteem for himself and low self confidence are more an emotion and how you feel than anything else. How you feel can direct so much, from your actions to your thoughts. If you want core self confidence you better learn to feel better in every aspect of your life, not just with women, that good feeling and that aura you feel will be a habit.

Once it becomes a habit your whole life will get easier, everything will come to you that you wish for, you will feel you deserve, and you will act on getting it. I don’t know if any of these traits fit your bill but I know many if not all of those have fit me throughout the my life. I’m sure you can imagine the work of getting over all of it being worth it, after all don’t you feel this state of low self esteem and a lack of self confidence is confining?

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What is True Core Self Confidence and Happiness?

I find it funny that I’ve been mocked, and talked down to on my concept of self-confidence; my ideal is more than just self-comfort or confidence talking to women. It’s more than being able to get laid, it’s more than getting rid of that self-doubt, it’s about gaining as my friend Nathaniel Cross would say:

              …an insane level of intrinsic self-worth, and is driven by desire, not ego.

If you could have this what would you have? To me this is the utter definition of True Core Self Confidence; it paints the picture of a man who knows what he wants, and goes after it while nothing can deter him as it is for himself NOT for his reputation or to impress anyone. His self-love is astounding and his self-worth is inevitable in every situation. This program is more than just your healthy mental state; this program is about a healthy emotional, mental, physical, and spiritual state.

My ideal of True Core Self Confidence is about raising every area of your life; it’s about having a definitive Life Purpose and heading in the right direction. Having inner happiness with yourself, and life direction, as well as eliminating insecurities, self-doubt, self-hate, etc., it’s about more than just emotional intelligence, it’s about physical, mental, and spiritual intelligence. How would your life be different if you got rid of your insecurities, self-doubt, and self-hate? Your happiness, self confidence, high self esteem, and presence will pour out of your aura.

Happiness isn’t about your obsession with pain or anguish, about what you don’t have but about being truly gracious with what you do have, about you loving what you are today. That means you strive to better yourself, only that you don’t obsess with the negative but instead focus on the positive, the positive always outshines the negative if you allow it to. Your focus is what creates your perceived negativity.

This program is about surrounding yourself with the correct people, knowing what you want, acting, gaining self-comfort, self-love, self-certainty, happiness, and so much more, not just talking to women, this is about core self-confidence that exists at your very inner core. You will be able to talk to women without a worry of their rebuttal to you, your value will not be affected positively or negatively by any outside source but by your own personal control.

Everything is about pushing you toward having more in your life, not necessarily stereos, cars, money, and girls, but substance that exists beyond words, with that the rest will come. Your power will be limited not by the boundaries you once placed but by your imagination, your work, and your focus. Can you imagine being able to walk up to any woman you choose and confidently begin with an introduction, without any doubt or fear of her reaction? How do you think that would feel?

I know I didn’t start out with Self confidence, I worked at it, it took hard work and effort to push myself as far as I have now and I know this is merely the tip of my potential.

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What does the True Core Self Confidence Program come with?

This program unlike many others comes with 21 lessons, that are intended to be ongoing habits on many of them. This program comes with 23 videos, 21 of them are video lessons! It also comes with an MP3 NLP visualization exercise to help stimulate your self confidence tons in a short period of time!

Here is a preliminary review (still awaiting the full program Review):

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Traits of a man with True Core Self Confidence and Happiness

When I designed this program I thought about all the traits I gained out of them and so many others gained from these very tasks and exercises, here is a list of some of the traits:

  • Happiness
  • Self-Certainty
  • Body Language – Carry Yourself with Confidence
  • Feel Good – Spiritually, Emotionally, Physically, and Mentally
  • Emotional Intelligence
  • Self-Love
  • Self-Belief
  • Self-Adoration
  • Awareness
  • A Beginning to Inner Consciousness
  • Life Purpose
  • Life Direction
  • Future
  • Life Goals
  • Acting toward Success
  • Optimism
  • Gracious
  • Accepts Compliments
  • Ambition
  • Self-comfort
  • Humble
  • Open Minded
  • Driven

The list goes on and on really that is but a small amount of the traits of the man with True Core Self Confidence and Happiness. It is more than that list though, it really becomes an essence. If you want to enjoy life and feel better than ever, purchase this program. One recent man said midway through my program “the difference I am seeing is night and day”. If you had these traits how much better do you believe your life would be?

If you would like to just tryout the program FREE for the first 5 days just

click here

What are the 5 largest elements of a man with Core Self Confidence?

Where do these Exercises come from?

These tactics aren’t tactics I made up, the True Core Self Confidence and Happiness Program is derived from a variety of resources, it’s not as if I am just some yahoo who made these up out of thin air. The lessons contained in this program draw from exercises recommended by Tony Robbins, Sean Stephenson, Richard Wiseman, Kevin Hogan, Allan Pease, Eckhart Tolle, and many other Life Coaches.

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(Right to Left: Sean Stephenson, Richard Wiseman, Allan Pease)

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(Right to Left: Kevin Hogan, Tony Robbins, Eckhart Tolle with Dalai Lama)

These people have helped MILLIONS of people with these exercises and this information. What would it be like if you had a gathering of some of the best self-help gurus out there and their exercises?

These guys have given tons to people through these very same exercises. There is one exercise I believe I’m responsible for that most people don’t recommend (I don’t remember reading it but it doesn’t mean I didn’t – I’ve read so much) but they are all on par for helping you develop the habits and traits of the self-confident you that you imagine. Are you interested in learning some of what these big whig life coaches have done to help millions of people?

Syllabus for the Program

Here are the 21 Lessons the Program covers:

  1. Learn to Love Yourself – Self-Love
  2. Act Confident Feel Confident – Your Body Language
  3. Life Will Go in a Direction, whether you Aim it or Not – Life Purpose
  4. It’s not just about Setting Goals but TAKING ACTION – S.M.A.R.T. Goals
  5. Know where You are Now, but Know Where you Want to be – Self-Improvements
  6. Your friends Aim your Self-Confidence in a Direction – The Right and Wrong People
  7. We all get by with a little Help with our Friends – Supportive Friends
  8. Sometimes we need a Reminder – Gathering Compliments
  9. What will you Look like? – Visualization (NLP MP3)
  10. Picture it all by gathering Pictures – Visual Board/Journal
  11. How do you feel and what you thinking about? – Mental and Emotional Awareness
  12. Relax – In, hold, OUT and Repeat for Peace and Confidence – Meditation
  13. A New Positive Self-Image – Fighting Negative Thoughts
  14. Eat Right, Feel Right – Water & Nutrition
  15. Human Interaction is Essential to Happiness – Connecting with People
  16. Arouse Yourself (NOT sexually) to feel right – Exercise
  17. Screw Judgment and Statuses, Why do you Care? – Avoid Judgmental Thoughts
  18. Do you realize you’re being controlled? – Understanding the Ego
  19. It feels good to make others feel good – Compliment 5 people
  20. Improve your Diction, Intellect, Wit, and Conversation Topics – Read
  21. Think Positive and Feel Positive – Positive Thought challenge

Materials you Need to get Started:

What you’ll need may be different but overall the 3 things you need are the Internet, a pen, and a Journal. It’s simple list but you must perform each task in order for it to work, if not you won’t actually gain that Self-Confidence you are reaching for now.

Here is a review about Lesson number 18 ( <–check it out free here) alone after it was posted on a Forum:

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It needs to be said…

Would you be surprised if I told you anything worth doing takes effort and commitment? Self confidence, high self esteem, and happiness require about as much as work as anything else. This Program only works if you work on yourself, what you put into the program is what you get out of the program. So if you tell me this stuff doesn’t work, I’m going to tell you that you didn’t perform the tasks. It works it is up to you to put the work into so it does what it is supposed to. You will get out of yourself EXACTLY what you put into yourself, therefore if you put nothing into yourself, expect to get nothing out of yourself. Could you imagine how you could get anything out of yourself if you don’t put anything into yourself?

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This Program is all about YOU

It’s all about you and making you better yourself, making you reveal how wonderful, brilliant, and amazing you are to yourself and anyone else. I made this program because I have felt that low self-esteem, self-doubt, self-loathing, and just generally no self-confidence or self-comfort, I gave you what I felt was the best thing I’ve learned on my adventure through life. If you choose to purchase this program now, you will be on your way to being a more self-confidence happier healthier (spiritually, emotionally, physically, and mentally) human being.

Just remember the more you do for you the more you’ll get out of you. If you choose to buy this program you will be on your way to high self esteem, self confidence, happiness, and all it entails! Purchase it now and you will be helping Science of Natural Game grow so I can continue to give information back to you guys!

NOW OFFERING MONEY BACK GUARANTEE!

If this program doesn’t help you after practicing the program for 60 days I’ll give you your money back! I’m that confident this program will help you if you follow the tools, exercises, and tactics in this program. You can become this confident person now with no financial risk, this program will make you more Self-Confident, raise your Self-esteem, and make you Happier!

If you struggle with anything in this Program I’m here to help you along the way just email me at Victor@TheScienceofNaturalGame.com. Must practice the program for 60 FULL days before I’ll give you your money back. You will be contacted regarding your experiences with the program for a reimbursement with in 3-5 business days.

Oh yeah what’s the price?

Oh by the way did I mention how ridiculously competitive my price is?

Most guys who put together a program ironically charge upwards of $147 or 3 payments of $57 and they don’t offer help along the way. Some offer as CHEAP as $10 (and I do mean cheap merchandise)! Other programs charge $49.95 for a program that has videos, lessons, and NO offer to help just a box where the message of help is simply a product to them. I didn’t put this program together to cheat anyone I put this program together to help people charging tons of money and not giving you what you deserve is not the basis of this program. I purposely put this at the price of used book to help people, not to abuse them when they need help the most!

So if my price isn’t

$147 

or 3 Payments of $57

or $49.95

How much is it for these 21 Lessons, 21 videos, an NLP MP3, AND me to email along the way? Probably like $197 right? WRONG! It is only:

Only $9.97!

If you can tell me where else you can find all this for only $9.97 and I’ll give you a free subscription with only 2 conditions:

  1. You give me an HONEST review (positive in the form of a testimonial, negative for constructive criticism to improve this program for others).
  2. Tell me where you found a better price for as good of a Product!

Purchase a subscription to this Program now and be on your way to True to your CORE Self Confidence and Happiness!

These packages are currently offered:

Bronze Package:

The Regular Email Subscription where you’ll have the emails sent to you daily for 21 lessons. This will be your basic what I actually designed the plan for… After 21 days you’ll have access to the full program.

Only $9.97

paypal

Silver Package:

Core Self-Confidence Course! You will be able to move through the program at your own pace. The platform is online so you don’t have to worry about downloading the big file.

The really nice thing about the course is it does include all the embedded videos throughout the course, it’s way easier to get through the course on the online platform. Rather than clicking on the link through email you are able to just watch the video. You are also given access to some extra pictures and videos. The course will be constantly updated.

You are also given the option to receive the daily email lesson if you want.

Note: I chose responsive website design so that you can even do the course on your phone or ipad!

Only $14.97

paypal

Gold Membership:

Full ownership of the program, you can download your own copy and have it on your hard drive, or on your phone, wherever you go. You’ll be sent a list of lesson links and you’ll be given access to a page as well as sent an email to download the whole program! This download is kind of big at 3.5 gbs, so keep that in mind! Any updates or added lesson are yours for free for life!

Also included is the option to sign up for the Email Subscription and you are automatically enrolled in the course!

Only $17.97

paypal

Don’t forget I am now offering the first 5 days FREE! If you would like to just tryout the program for the first 5 days, just

click here

Thank You guys for Reading and Supporting Science of Natural Game!

Peace and Love,

Vic

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Self – Esteem Podcast – What is it? How does it affect you?

Hey guys,

Here is a great little podcast I came across from “Let’s Face it”. It goes over the importance self esteem! Highly recommend a listen, ENJOY!

Check it out here

http://www.faceitfoundation.org/2013/01/self-esteem/

It’s a good listen from the folks over at Let’s face it.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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Self-Esteem vs. Narcissism By Lisa Firestone, Ph.D.

Hey guys,

This is an awesome article on Self-Esteem vs. Narcissism. It’s pretty well rounded so I thought I’d post it up for you guys that associate the two. Please enjoy here is Self-Esteem vs. Narcissism By Lisa Firestone, Ph.D.

Find the web address here: http://www.psychalive.org/2012/06/self-esteem-vs-narcissism/

Enjoy!

Peace and Love,

Vic

As a culture, we are highly concerned with self-esteem. And this is a good thing. How we feel about ourselves determines how we treat those around us and vice versa. In 1890, William James identified self-esteem as a fundamental human need, no less essential for survival than emotions such as anger and fear. And yet, we often fail to measure the many distinctions between self-esteem and vanity, or we fail to understand how our actions and reactions can serve to bolster one as opposed to the other.

Terror management theorist Dr. Sheldon Solomon makes the point that self-esteem is “controversial as some claim that it is vitally important for psychological and interpersonal well-being, while others insist that self-esteem is unimportant or is associated with increased violence and social insensitivity.” He goes on to say that “those who claim that high self-esteem is problematic and associated with increased aggression are either willfully or unwittingly confusing and [equating] self-esteem with narcissism.”

The distinction between self-esteem and narcissism is of great significance on a personal and societal level. Self-esteem differs from narcissism in that it represents an attitude built on accomplishments we’ve mastered, values we’ve adhered to, and care we’ve shown toward others. Narcissism, conversely, is often based on a fear of failure or weakness, a focus on one’s self, an unhealthy drive to be seen as the best, and a deep-seated insecurity and underlying feeling of inadequacy. So where do these attitudes come from? And why do we form them?

In our new book, The Self Under Siege, my father, psychologist and author Robert Firestone, and I write, “Vanity is a fantasized image of the self that is formed when parents substitute empty praise and a false buildup for the real love and acknowledgment they have failed to provide to their child.” Such parents leave their children feeling unseen and with a sense of pressure to be someone they aren’t. On the other hand, parents who are attuned to their children and genuinely responsive to them leave their offspring feeling seen and validated. These children grow up with an accurate sense of who they are and with healthy self-esteem.

Studies have shown that children offered compliments for skills they haven’t mastered or talents they do not possess are left feeling as if they’d received no praise at all, often even emptier and less secure. Only children praised for real accomplishments were able to build self-esteem. The others were left to develop something far less desirable — narcissism. Unnatural pressure or unearned buildup can lead to increased insecurities and anxieties that foster narcissism over self-confidence.

Narcissism encourages envy and hostile rivalries, where self-esteem supports compassion and cooperation. Narcissism favors dominance, where self-esteem acknowledges equality. Narcissism involves arrogance, where self-esteem reflects humility. Narcissism is affronted by criticism, where self-esteem is enhanced by feedback. Narcissism makes it necessary to pull down others in order to stand above them. Self-esteem leads to perceiving every human being as a person of value in a world of meaning.

Society plays a role in fostering self-esteem or narcissism. Dr. Solomon explains, “Self-esteem is ultimately a cultural construction, because the standards of value by which people judge themselves are derived from adhering to social standards.” These standards can either provide ways for people to feel good about themselves, or they can promote unrealistic expectations that can only destroy self-esteem. Solomon comments that in America, a man has to be rich and successful, and a woman has to be “young and thinner than a piece of linguini, and that’s impossible.” He states:

Our kids are taught at a very early age to adhere to a set of values that is not realistically attainable for the average individual. And so it shouldn’t surprise us that a third of the American population is depressed and another third is addicted to drugs and alcohol, and the final third is watching television or shopping at [the super store] for a chain saw or a lemon.

When Dr. Solomon and his colleagues, Jeff Greenberg and Tom Pyszczynski, developed terror management theory, one of the questions they asked was: What is the significance of self-esteem? Their research uncovered important answers to their question and incidentally underscored the reason why, as William James noted, “Self-esteem is a fundamental human need, essential for survival.” Their findings showed that a powerful and potentially productive shield against existential anxieties inherent in our human condition is the feeling that we are each a valuable member of a meaningful universe.

Dr. Solomon and his colleagues have posited that existential awareness and the attempts to avoid death anxiety have contributed significantly to many of the world’s wars and political conflicts. Conversely, both Dr. Solomon and Robert Firestone argue that when death awareness isn’t denied but recognized, it can be used to promote peace and compassion. The idea that we are all in the same boat, albeit a sinking boat (as Solomon indicates), promotes a sense of equality and togetherness. The acknowledgement that our physical selves share the same fate and that we all have the same fears, can help us to be more understanding of one another’s limitations.

Feeling good about yourself as a person and acceptable for who you are allows you to move through your life with a sense of purpose, meaning, and value. Ernest Becker wrote, “the seemingly trite words ‘self-esteem’ are at the very core of human adaptation.” In order to gain a sense of self, we must perceive ourselves as valuable members of a society that means something. Giving back and offering compassion, aid, and empathy are key to realizing our value. When we acknowledge that our time on earth is fleeting, we accept the painful reality that gives each action more weight, each moment more poignancy. It also gives us a great opportunity to take advantage of the time we have and the people we share this time with. Thus, building self-esteem is about building beyond ourselves, a sense of community, camaraderie, and equality among our fellow human beings.

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Sean Stephenson…. One of my FAVORITE motivational speakers on Self Help!

Hey Guys,

Sean Stephenson is one of the coolest speakers I have ever seen. In fact I’d say he is one of the single most motivating experiences I have had in my life…. When I met him I fell in love with the Message he was putting out.

If you want to learn what it is like to go up against challenge and succeed watch this video with Sean Stephenson.

Please, please enjoy what I consider one of the best motivational speeches I’ve ever hear(even bought his book Get Off Your but a phenomenal book!)

Peace and Love,

Vic

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How to Be Happy – A 5 day Drill to make you Happier!

Hey Guys,

This goes over how to be Happy! This is one of my favorite drills, and is part of the Core Confidence Program because it is AWESOME for helping people become happier!

How to be happy goes over the basics of happiness. You learn about the easiest way to be happy. Contained in the slideshow is a 5 day drill on how to be happy. This drill goes over everything you need to be happier with your life as it is today. It also has a small bit on imagining how your life will be in the future, how to be happier for you. I goes over the hard work involved in getting there.

Repeat the “How to be Happy” drill if happiness subsides and unhappiness returns, or as needed.

This drill is based on Richard Wiseman’s Happiness drill contained in Richard Wiseman’s book 59 Seconds: Think a little, Change a lot.

Enjoy!

Peace and Love,

Vic

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New Weekly Giveaway!

Hey guys,

I am now going to be raffling off my Core Self Confidence Program . Here is a link to your Raffle Entry form (just click the Pic) or Click Here . Note: If you don’t have facebook or twitter just email me at victor@thescienceofnaturalgame.com to end up in the raffle!

Raffle for Subscription

Thank you guys for all your support! Coming soon, and I mean very soon(like SATURDAY) is the Core Self Confidence Program Newsletter, included in it will be a podcast, video, and an article or two to start…. Weekly tips and tricks on how to be happy, confident, and have high self esteem. It may grow bigger and bigger but for now there will be a weekly newsletter, in the future after you sign up for the newsletter you’ll be automatically entered into the raffle… Still working on getting that up!

Peace and Love,

Vic

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An Ideal called True Core Self-Confidence

Hey Guys,

Since I’ve created my True Core Self-Confidence and Happiness Program I have been trying to figure out how to explain True Core Self-Confidence, it is so much of an experience, an aura, and feeling (I almost feel it is an emotion) than a list of traits and the ability to talk to women. It’s more than being able to stand confident, or talk confident.

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If you come across a guy who has True Core Self-Confidence you will sense it. You know that guy that walks up to a girl gets rejected than goes and talks to some other sexy girl laughing and smiling as if nothing happen? THAT guy is practicing a strong Self-Confidence. His self-worth is completely unattached to any outside source or opinion. His self-confidence is within his CORE. The fact that she wasn’t interested doesn’t mean he isn’t interesting, in fact as far as he is concerned it’s her loss. That is how I feel, if a woman misses out on me, it’s her loss. That’s how you should feel too, sure you may require working on yourself some more but that doesn’t mean you can’t have that aura, awareness, consciousness of True Core Self-Confidence.

Now when you gain that True Core Self-Confidence that attitude, that emotion, behavior, mindset, and everything that comes with it is attached to EVERYTHING. Your fearless to go on to be successful at whatever you dream of because you take nothing personally. Not just women, not just business every action you take has a definitive inevitable moment of eminent success.

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There may be some rough patches along the way, some may refer to it as rejection, some may refer to is as failure, but when you absorb that True Core Self-Confidence NOTHING deters you from success. The bumps in that road ahead are simply lessons along the way that require adjustment, just as you tripped and fell as you learned to walk, you’ll trip and fall as you learn to succeed. However your confidence in your inevitable success grants you passage through all your negative experiences along the way.

My ideal of True Core Self-Confidence is beyond your abilities in an area or even just you belief in yourself but also expands to your self-esteem. Your self-esteem should be outstandingly resilient, high, insane and out of this world. As my boy Nathaniel Cross has said:

It is a man who has an insane Level of Self-worth, driven by desire, not ego.

He was referring to Alpha, his concept of Alpha which happens to match precisely my definition of True Core Self-Confidence; I mean that statement encompasses so much. If you are one who meditates than I suggest you meditate on this statement as it opens gateways to much more than simply comfort talking to a woman. True Core Self-Confidence certainly contains a wide variety of traits, but without experiencing it most people think it is unrealistic, imaginative, stupid, I’ve heard it all. What I’ve noticed is these guys genuinely are clueless to the concept, their blind to the better way of life. They are unhappy, insecure, have low self-esteem, and low Self-confidence.

Low self esteem

This feeling, this aura, this awareness is absolutely 100% real, it is an amazing experience beyond words. You may not believe it is possible for you to feel that way, you may feel that it is only in some of us. Well I would have to disagree not because I have it in me but because I know what it is like on the other side. At one point I was just another square who stared at my toes when I talked to girls I was attracted to. I couldn’t value myself, I thought every woman I was attracted to could do better, I didn’t think a woman could possibly be attracted to me, but now I feel what woman wouldn’t want to be with me. The difference is simply my comfort with me, my self-love, and my much higher self-esteem among many other things have made me into “The Man” because of my True Core Self-Confidence.

I dare you to go out and do all you need to gain that True Core Self-Confidence, I’ll admit it is hard work but it is way more worth it than the self-loathing I was once accustomed to.

Peace and Love,

Vic

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